Tuesday, October 19, 2010

Quit #3

I completed my 3rd quilt last week. It only took me 6 months (some little things got in the way: renting our condo, moving to a new house, and of course summer)

I made it for my niece Jubilee. It is very girly, pink, and full of sparkly fairies. The sad part, is the this is the only picture I remembered to take of it (on my phone)!! I was so intent on getting it in the mail, I spaced taking any good pics. You can also view Jubilee holding her new blanket HERE.

Quilt #4 is now in the works. This one should be done in more acceptable time frame (I hope)

Wednesday, September 22, 2010

3 years of images

One nice thing about having a blog, is looking back and seeing the change. I read the post I wrote the year Violet was born, and today she had her first real tears. It's amazing to see the change and the growth.
2010

2009 - The photo is perfect, we will call this the year of "NO"


2008

2007

Tuesday, September 21, 2010

My Heart

Yesterday I picked Violet up from school.

She was sobbing; I quickly scooped her up and asked her what was wrong.
This hurt little voice came out "XXX hurt my feelings".

My heart sank; why was it so painful to hear these words?

It's excruciating to think about how cruel other children can be, or that her feelings will get hurt countless times throughout her life. This is only the beginning.

This is one of those moments I want to shield her from it all.

I want to keep her under my wing, defend her from her enemies, and protect her “feelings”.

I want to tell her over and over what an incredible little person she is, and help to give her the confidence she needs to stand up for herself.

This parenting thing is a tough job, just one more thing I learned about both her and myself today. I guess it’s a never ending journey. I wouldn’t change it for anything. I’m sure there will many more tears along the way. I hope I can be the best support and listener. I’m ready.

I read this today and it reminded me of why we are faced with certain things:
For a person who cherishes compassion and love, the practice of tolerance is essential, and for that, an enemy is indispensable. So we should feel grateful to our enemies, for it is they who can best help us develop a tranquil mind! (Article on Compassion and the Individual by the Dalai Lama)